encouraging happiness at home

It might sound trite, but some of these suggestions do make a big difference in their simplicity.  Apartment Therapy's article on 10 Simple Things to Make You Happier At Home includes reviewing your approach to chores you usually detest, making your bed, waking up grateful...  small changes to create a more peaceful home. We've been making the bed more (when the cat hasn't puked on the blankets) and playing music while washing dishes.  If I could remember to wake up and quote the Dalai Lama, I'm sure I'd try that.  But even reciting his thoughts a few hours after waking still gives me chills.